But why would we want to do this? In short, most of us have had this energy separated and kept from the rest of our body because we have been taught that it is dangerous, taboo, or isolated to the particular purpose of procreating babies. Even when we engage in the taboo act of sex, we often engage in only a superficial way because we have not integrated the sexual side of us into the rest of ourselves. Generally, we are bad at sex, but we are also not realizing the full creative and freeing energy of sexual energy in balance with everything else that makes us us (what we call the chakra system). By opening up this energy and moving it through our entire bodies, we open ourselves to blissful response.